Wednesday, January 06, 2010

That's a Bump, and, Summation on Pregnancy Jeans

Or it's the cheese fondue I ate at that family Christmas party...

Yes, those are still my jeans. Stretch cords actually, from AG. Love them. Lifesavers. You see, there are no jeans for preggo women I've decided. I've learned about 4 different waistbands:
  • Adjustable: My favorite. There are hidden elastic straps inside of the waistband, and you just pull and button when your pants get too big. All of my jeans should have these. All of my Habitual jeans at least, since they always stretch out.
  • Short Waist Band: A total tease so far. They just squeeze all of my love handles into smushy messes. Not all brands make such aggressive elastic, but some do. Woa nelly.
  • Wide Lycra Waist Band: Gentle, almost too gentle. See, I ordered a size 3 in all preggo jeans from Habitual and Page Skinny (nothing skinny about them), and they are falling off. Literally. So, I'm either busting out the butt and literally breaking my jeans, or they are falling off.
  • Low Belly: These have no elastic at all, just a super low belly. Very odd. Like bikini, but for preggo ladies. I got these in Habitual Skinny (they were supposed to be Habitual Knocked Up, but I think they sent the wrong ones). Skinny they were (yay! legs are the only things I've got going for me), but in the waist (size 3), a smidge big. Sigh. It's weird to want to grow into your jeans, to actually hope your thighs get bigger. But then you stop thinking that real quick.
So that's the update on that.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Moment of Zen with Coffee Cozi at Caribou

Enjoying a moment of morning zen over at Caribou coffee in the Upper Arlington suburbs in Columbus OH with my new designer coffee cozi from Katie James. David went on an hour long power walk with his twin sister Dayna, and I just can't move that quickly first thing in the morning, especially in 25degree weather.

Do you like this coffee cozi with the pocket? Get it here >

Tuesday, December 01, 2009

Yes, I'm Pregnant, and There Will be Clothes

baby bird card

This is a pregnancy card from Kate's Paperie that I bought myself because guess what, I am pregnant. I could have bought it for several other friends who are pregnant, but darn it, it was too cute to not cut and paste it into my new pregnancy journal that I also bought at Kate's. The booties were knitted in 60 seconds by my friend Word Bird, and were done so with pink and green yarn so could be unisex.

Now, I just have to warn you, I am not a "baby person". I'm one of those people who looks at dogs on the sidewalk, and goes mushy. I look at babies in strollers, and instead of wanting my own tiny baby, just want to have my own one of those stroller sleeping bag blankets that I myself can sleep in. In other words, the clock in my belly wasn't ticking, but the clock in my brain was. My goal was to set up my own business so that I could work from home or have easy access to my children (even saying that feels weird!). I also wanted to be sort of young. My mom was 23; Dental Mista's mom was 19. I always had a feeling that I wanted kids young, but wouldn't do it until my early 30s. Well, here we are! And for those of you mistas who think that you're getting old because you're in your 30s, let me tell you: most likely, you are just as ripe. ;)

So are you going to see me jump and down and stuff? Probably not. But it's not because I'm not excited. I'm more overwhelmed and humbled with learning, and realizations that babies and all of us are miracles. Will you see cutenesses in between the lines of these pregnancy posts? Probably. ;) Why did I wait so long to blog about it? Well, because it's all still a little weird to me, and I keep learning things that make new milestones of 'safeness'. So, at 15 weeks, I think I can tell you.

FAQs
These are literal FAQs ;)

Do you want to know if it's a boy or a girl?
At first I wanted to go old school, and David quickly agreed. I also didn't want to get too attached in case something bad happened. But then I kept getting ultrasounds and saw it progress from a black smudge, to a white spec inside of the black smudge, to a jumping bean in the black smudge (indicated heartbeat...milestone!), to now a flipping around tiny baby thing. Then my friend, who was supposed to be the one who would hold out with me and be one of the last to get pregnant, actually got pregnant, and then 20 weeks later, called me to say "It's a girl!" after her ultrasound. So I decided that I wanted to know, but David wants to wait. So I just won't tell him. ;) Plus, David and I are hooked on 2 names - one girl and one boy name. So, I'd really like to know which I can start latching onto, and which I need to get final about (I'm not crazy about the boy name, but I'll deal with that once I know the for sure answer).

Are you having cravings?
Not really. I like pickles anyway, so now am just freely eating them. I will say that I'm eating new things. New, and bad things. Like soda. I've sworn off Diet Coke, but the more I see it in people's glasses with ice cubes floating around, the more I want to suck it down. I'm having a Sprite right now. I have a sweet tooth, but am trying to not give the baby diabetes. The sight of cooked salmon grosses me out. I love salmon, so this is a sad loss.

Are you tired?
It varies by week. Like most of these new pregnancy symptoms. This week I appear to not be tired, as this post is bring written at 10pm. But I must say, in the beginning, going to bed at 9pm was awesome. Now, I don't get so much tired as my bones get tired. I'm told that my bones have softened to make it easy for them to shift around and widen (wha???). So, sometimes I feel quite crackily and brittle.

Are you going to move out of New York City?
I'm not going to lie. The school system freaks me out. There is a consultant I could go to who could help me navigate (I know that sounds silly...but really, it overwhelms me), but David and I grew up in the midwest. We kind of like the outdoors and backyards and crocuses. Plus, I grew up in a place I wanted to break out of and see new things. I think that gave me a drive, yes? It's a cockeyed theory tho. Unproven. The thought of leaving New York City leaves us jittery. So, we've looked at Upper Manhattan (aka Harlem, Washington Heights, anywhere that has a shred of a deal left), and train towns along in the Hudson. We shall see...

Are you going to go on maternity leave?
If I was working for a salaried desk job, sure, I'd take it and cherish it. But I don't. I blog, I Facebook stuff, I help people grow their websites, I love challenges, I order more inventory and love when it sells off the website. So that is work for me, but it's work that I love. To not do it would leave me twitching. Look at Diane Keaton's character in Baby Boom. She left her job (pushed out), and started making all of those apple sauces until they were a huge business. She just could not sit still. And guess what. Neither can the baby! It flips around all of the time and punches the air.

You must read the Girlfriends Guide to Pregnancy.
Ok, this isn't a question, it's a statement. I'll confess, I have the attention span for the weekly www.babycenter.com emails, which tell me what week I'm at and what's happening. Last week, the fingerprints formed. I also have the www.childbirthconnection.org experts on speed-email because Katie James Pixelated helps them manage their website. But I use this only in emergencies. But it has inspired a new Pregnancy 101 section...

Can you feel it?
No. And that makes it all weirder. I have no bulging bump, and I don't feel anything flipping. I can see it flipping during an ultrasound, but that's it - for now. I'm told that later on of course, I will. Last summer, my pedicure lady, who I see every 2-3 weeks, looked at me in my umpire waist shirt from Urban Outfitters and said: "Baby!?" and I had to say "No.". But now when I go in there, I feel like they are looking at my extra love handle-ish belly, and wondering, and not saying something. When they say something to me, I will feel officially pregnant. But for now, I think they are being polight. ;)

Are you drinking coffee?
Yes. One cup a day is deemed ok. I only drank one cup in the morning anyway.

Are you getting the H1N1 shot?
Yes. After much consideration, I decided that the conspiracy theorists who thought the government was trying to kill us through the shot was not actually logical. The H1N1 itself seemed to be taking care of that. I have a pretty high immune system anyway, but do have asthma, so after a lot of debating, I got it. I requested the mercury-free one.

Are you getting the flu shot?
Not sure. I don't get the flu much anyway, tho I'm told that my immune system is down during pregnancy. We shall see. Soda doesn't help the situation, and usually brings on a cold if I'm having one floating around my body. So I should stay away from that.


MY OBSERVATIONS
Ok, so once you say you're pregnant, everyone thinks you have a belly that you might rub. What you actually have is "redistributed weight". So, while I gained 0-3 pounds in the first several weeks, I had more love handles than ever. I think I'm at 8lbs now, and skirts from the summer are just not getting over my hips. It's depressing. Oh, and why am I trying on skirts from the summer? Because I am the most comfortable in leggings, and leggings need a little skirt or sweater dress to go over them. And saying to me: "But it's for a good cause!" doesn't console me. Until I find a wardrobe that is easy to put on again, I will fight this non-weight weight gain. Still no bump. Ok, maybe a tiny bump, but if you didn't know I was pregnant, you'd think I'd been eating too many Crumbs cupcakes again.

Guys sense the pregnancy hormones. I swear it. It's like a perfume.

I am in a raging clothing crisis. I already needed new jeans, as one pair of my Paige's had shrunk long ago so were tight anyway. My Habituals finally are in shreds, and my AG skinny jeans are so skinny, that while stretching them out after the dryer, they finally split (the fabric went soft, of course!). I patched those, but on way to the pedicure place two weeks ago, they split again, and this time, there is no return. I told this to my mom: "Mom! I am showing cheek!" And so began her maternity clothing mission. And who am I to stop her. She has since found maternity for Habitual, AG, 3 dot, and more. My good friend New Mom Mista (who needs a new name by now) loaded me up with her very nice maternity collection, which consists of a lot of pink and green, her favorite colors. The collection included 7 of All Mankind jeans, but we have both agreed, that the elastic on those (for the bump), is waaay too tight even for her pilates stomach. This is hard people. Very hard. I'm currently in Pink sweats from Victoria Secrets, or in my AG stretch cords in my normal, non-pregnant size (oddly). We found stretch cotton shirts at Anthropology in the sale room, so hurrah. The search for normal looking maternity clothes has begun.

Ok, I'm off to bed so that I can get good sleep for the baby and wake up tomorrow for some small amount of cardio to keep the oxygen flowing.

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Holiday Boy Gift Ideas for Husbands, Boyfriends and Brothers

As hard as I try to write down gift ideas for my husband David throughout the year...I always forget. So let's get the holiday gift idea list going.

The Barber Spa with The Art of Shaving
The Art of Shaving Barber Spa
I interviewed my husband's hard-to-please friend, and he said right away: A gift certificate to a shave with The Art of Shaving. At first I thought he meant product, which I've given David before and he's hooked, but he meant an actual hot shave.
Buy it from The Art of Shaving >



Magazine Subscription
Magazine Subscription to Bicycle Magazine
These trade magazines have loads of gift ideas, even for birthdays. If your boyfriend or husband is into cycling, try Bicycle Magazine for gift ideas.
Buy it and other magazines at Amazon > (and FashionMista gets a commission)


Griffin Elevator Lift for His Laptop Computer
Griffin Elevator for Laptop Computers
This is a great gift. My own brother gave it to me, out of his very own thought. I love it!!! I travel a lot with my laptop, and the Griffin Elevator lets me look straight on and relax my neck. I'd recommend a keyboard to plug in so that he doesn't need to hold his hands up, but I've been totally cool without it. It's totally portable and breaks into 3 pieces. Fits great in my messenger bag.
Buy it at Amazon > (and FashionMista gets a commission)


Keyboard Cufflinks
keyboard cufflinks
For the real geekiness in your husband or boyfriend, check out these MAC keyboard cufflinks - with custom initials! Could be a perfect gift for your geeky brother. Great stocking stuffer!
Buy it at Geekware.com >

Leather Wrist Band/Cuffs for Studs
genuine leather wrist cuff/bands for boys
If your husband, boyfriend or brother is the super studly type, going to clubs and such, then the black genuine leather wrist band/cuff from Di Manno Designs is a perfect stocking stuffer for him.
Buy at DiMannoDesigns.com >
Buy Entrepreneur, a Collective-E.com Movement


The POWERCUP On-the-Go Power Supply Cup
PowerCup with Outlets for Car
Ok, this one may be more for me when I need to plug in my laptop for more power in the car, but this power supply cup with outlets can be a great help for your man.
Buy it at Delight.com >

Removable Toddler or Baby Car Seat Cover
car seat covers for infants, baby and toddlers
Speaking of the car, your hubby might be the one who deals with the car seat when it gets dirty. Founder Katie Danziger was shocked when she realized that she couldn't easily clean her car seat, so invented the nomie baby brand to solve problems for parents. She launched with the nomie car seat cover for babies and toddlers, and it is a time saver and saves on back pain. And now, nomie baby is being carried in the Friends of Katie James online boutique, Diapers.com, and BuyBuyBaby.com!
Buy at Friends of Katie James >
Buy Entrepreneur, a Collective-E.com Movement


Fish Bottle Opener and Coaster
Fish Bottle Opener with Coaster
For the fisherman in your life, or the rugged outdoorsman, check out these fish coasters with bottle opener.
Buy at Artful Sentiments >

100% Kosher Beef T-Shirt
100% Kosher Beef T-shirt
For the meet-lover. Pure, 100% Kosher Beef t-shirt. It's a muscle-t, and you won't see many like it.
Buy it at PopJudaica.com >

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Honoring the Down Trees in Central Park

Gerdy and I went walking this morning at The Great Hill, one of the highest points in Central Park at W. 104th Street. We made it before the 9am leash law took effect, so that Gerdy could wander through the shrubbery and pollinate plants that are seeding tiny little green seeds in her thick coat. What is different for us now, after doing this for almost seven years, is that the canopy of trees that we walk under, on little paths carved out naturally and some by the Parks Department, are gone.

A twenty minute storm with 70 mile per hour winds and hail that blew through the Upper West Side on Tuesday, August 25, uprooted, blew over, "shattered" (word used by a writer for the New Yorker) hundreds of trees, and the shrubbery on which they collapsed. According to that article, some of the trees were over 150 years old and had been there since the beginning of Central Park.

The morning after the storm, stunned New Yorkers couldn't take their normally scheduled walks on paths because entire trees had fallen and blocked the paths. Dog walkers who are here every morning, climbed through entire trees, which is an odd experience, to get through and get to the other side, only to climb through more fallen trees. Birch trees were blown upside down - the top half resting on its head beside its severed trunk. This was before the Parks Department could caution tape everything off a few hours later and begin buzz sawing to be rid of trunks or entire root systems blocking major walkways. Therefore, this blog post is a long overdue obituary of sorts, for these trees and pieces of woods that are now gone.

What the Trees Mean to Me
Central Park looks very different and produces different emotional or scented effects depending where you are standing. Like New York itself, which changes block by block, the Park serves as calm bird sanctuary, dog walker heaven, roller skater madness, sun bathing beauty, soccer for little kids in the Fall, handball for those without tennis raquets all year, stunning English gardens from the Vanderbilts, shelter for wandering homeless men, a hideout for some criminals when chased by police car and helicopter (as seen from our windows) and two wild dogs (who were later dramatically captured, housed, and adopted).

What usually goes unnoticed, or maybe it's just me, is how this land changes not acre by acre, by 10 feet by 10 feet. The concrete footpath leading up to the track at Great Hill, which houses small children riding bikes with training wheels, frisbee golf clans, and dog walkers, leads one through a vast sloping lawn on one side, and what used to be the Blair Witch of woods on the other side, until a woman living in a very fancy apartment across the street donated over $1 million dollars to renovate it. After the renovation, she'd spy on the dog walkers from her window, and call the police when she spotted someone throwing a stick to their unleashed dog at 10am, or 1pm, or any time that was not within the leash law. In the winter, this was particularly problematic because the leaves were gone from the trees and her line of vision was like a hawk through the branches. In the summer, after the heavy budding of the elm and tulip trees erupted into big fluttering leaves, we were safely hidden again.

After she renovated the Blair Witch area, wild shrubbery had been cleared out and replaced with bursting pink flowering bushes, baby trees and new ferns. Rocks were placed in a circle that actual witch groups would gather round to light candles and have chants, and dead trees that served as landmarks were left untouched and mowed around, serving as chimneys at night for any person who needed to sit by a fire.

This tiny area of the park, when viewed from the street, is high up on a cliff, with jagged rocks that some people scale, shaded in lilac trees that smell overwhelmingly delicious in Spring, even when you are walking the same speed of the garbage truck on its morning route. The morning after the big storm, most of those lilac trees bended down the cliff, breaking onto the sidewalk. Up at the height of the cliff, there are smooth, rolling rocks that one can sit on and absorb the sun like the turtles do just one block down in at The Pond. The trees around the rocks allow for spots of sun, but mostly, serve as a temporary shelter during a light drizzle. Trees are all around, and you are hidden from any park ranger if you are off leash with your dog who may insist on eating several of the leafy greens that grow from the different type of weeds or bushes.

After the storm, however, this little area is bare, and sun beams entirely on the rocks, giving you more of choice of where to sit, but less of a sanctuary. Further up, where the lilacs where, some still remain, but the expanse of bush is gone. It is brown dirt, surrounded by bails of hay one could surmise is to prevent new chances of erosion. A tree that seemed to spin out in its growth and was very wide, lost one half of itself. Two major trunks grew from the base, and one trunk did not survive the storm and snapped off, crashing on the area beneath it.

Standing on this rock, this big mother of a rock that on one side has a 6 foot drop off into smaller rocks, you can now see the line of apartments running south down Central Park West when you could not before. To the west, is the bare soil with patches of pink flowering bush still budding behind fencing that was once lush with paths and landscape, and to the north east, one sees the growing pile of stacked tree trunks reaching 15 feet high, which have been fenced off with fencing that doesn't reach that high. Across from it, a steaming pile of woodchips, the fate of those tree trunks, which are elm, tulip, oaks, horse chestnut, beech and black cherry. The woodchip pile is steaming because of the pressure of so many woodchips on top of each other, encouraging combustion. This is Ground Zero for what seems like all of the trees that cannot be removed from the park because of an infestation of Asian longhorned beetle that was caught in a few trees two years ago. They must all be shredded. It was estimated that 500 trees were down. This used to be where I jogged, but the ginormous canopy tree I stood under to do my stretching now lies in that pile, to be transformed by a bladed woodchipping truck. So I don't jog there anymore until it's all gone, which looks to be several months, since the pile seems to only grow wider.

Walking home, there remains one path through the woods that despite the blowing streams of yellow caution tape tied to its fencing, retains some of the enchantment and quiet that several of these winding paths used to give to walkers of Central Park who needed to ge engulfed in green and mulch and weeds and flowers and swaying branches for just a minute before returning back into the world of elevators and subways and sidewalks, where running in bare feet through clean grass is just a memory.

This is just one small area of the park that was devastated. And really, the total extent of damage only occurred between W. 97th and W. 110th streets. Central Park goes from 110th to 59th streets on both the east and west sides. If one didn't walk by the renovated space formerly known as Blair Witch, they'd take the lower path and walk by woods, where dogs can be frequently seen darting through, or taking peaceful poops. Bird watchers would mill around with binoculars looking at the new hawk that had settled here in one of the tallest trees. I saw my first bluejay attack on a cardinal nest. All gone now. No tall tree where that hawk built the nest.

It's cleared. Brown. Roots sticking up out of the ground. Roots of trees turned to a 90degree angle taller than me. The bales of hay circling the base of what was once dense woods that one could not see through, unless in the dead of winter. Gerdy still walks over this space, does her business, and continues to sniff the new earth that I wish I could say was fresh. But the odor of the rotting tree trunks in the pile above is overwhelming, and all I can do is sit on a freshly but jagged cut tree stump while Gerdy sits on the new hillside absorbing the crisp Fall breeze that blows freely in this unobstructed place. I could envision thoughts in her mind, that she's missing these woods, but I don't think that's the case. She is enjoying the new open hillside to catch up on all that's being carried on the back of the breeze.

Several volunteers of all ages have come out to rake branches, spread mulch, clear brush, and anything that needs done. Here's information on how to volunteer in Central Park.

The fixing of the park will be expensive. Here's how you can donate to Central Park.

Thanks. Here are pictures.

Our first clue that something was wrong.


Our second clue. The birch tree branch upside down.


Confirmation that things were bad. This is a concrete path leading up to the Great Hill near The Pond and the Inner Drive.


Scramble through that tree, and you'll see the next set of trees down.


This tree uprooted and fell over.


Super closeup shot of a hefty tree that just snapped and fell over.


Another tree that just snapped.





Up on the Great Hill. This is the tree I used to stretch under. There is a huge tree next to it, and Gerdy would sit under that one while our rabbi friend and his dog would do forms of meditation. That one is still standing.


I think this is the other side of that tree, the root structure. Always amazing to see the hole it leaves. There is one deeper into the woods, where there is a ravine, and it's always been there. It's like a crater landed there, and has always been a landmark for Gerdy, that she has to sniff and climb into. But now, there are lots of these types of holes.





Trees in trees.


When this fell, did anyone hear it? I sure didn't. I didn't even bring out my camera that morning. No one thought major damage had happened.


All of the trees get taken here to this pile on the Great Hill.


Some of the trees were unhealthy I suppose, but according to the New Yorker article on August 31st. 2009, several healthy ones came down due to those high force burst of winds.




The growing mound of chips that the trees get turned into and is then spread throughout areas of the park, including new and old paths.



This is Gerdy trolloping through the new blank hillside that used to be totally covered in woods. This used to be where we could hide from the police when we needed to be offleash to do some business.

Monday, August 24, 2009

Tilapia: I Cooked the most Yummy Breaded Fish and Homemade Tarter Sauce

Determined to cook something other than chicken with creamy pasta (of which I'm a pro), I'm attempting to cook dinner for my husband. A feat that does not usually happen in our early married life. I usually work until he comes home, at which point, he looks at the empty, scentless kitchen and reaches for the canister of delivery menus. It's really gotten bad. And I'm so over that delivery food because I think it made me put on 10lbs. So here goes.

But wait you say - this is a fatty meal. Breaded and fried in oil? No, I tell you. Here is what it is made with:
  • saffron oil (as opposed to soybean oil)
  • fresh breadcrumbs from the Silver Spoon Bakery
  • organic eggs and flour for dipping the fillet of tilapia into

And the tarter sauce? Harmless Helmans regular mayonnaise with minced:
(1 tablespoon each)
  • red onion
  • dill pickle
  • capers
  • fresh parsley

Delish I tell you. And David gave it a thumbs up! I must say, I was also totally inspired by Julie and Julia, in that, she cooks for someone.

Friday, August 21, 2009

Country Sounds in the City

From a park bench in Central ParkAs I sit out here in Central Park with Gerdy, the breeze blows on a balmy August morning and waves of locusts calls carry through the trees while buzz saws eat through fallen trees from this week's hurricane-like mini storm.

It's refreshing to hear these sounds, as in my apartment, I hear mainly sirens, honking, Music with a Latin flair, and the occasional bird from a neighboring tree or stray pigeon who lands on the air conditioner.

So while sitting on this park bench, I tried to pretend that I was in my dream home country kitchen, with my coffee and laptop on an island of dark polished granite, doors open, the sunlight bouncing off of my white tile-work, and I began to feel a different kind of peace. Oddly, in my fantasy, my ears filled with the ringing sound from total silence. I started to feel alone from groups of other people. My oasis was perfect, but the buzz from buildings normally around me wasn't there. It was just trees...a thick wall of trees and maybe an occasional garbageman. The closing walls of...the burbs.

I zoomed out of my fantasy and returned to the park bench, where buildings tower along side Central Park, occasional people taking pictures of the tree damage while walking to work, baby strollers, dogs on leashes, dogs off leashes, park surveyors of said damage, homeless people who live in the park...just people who I normally never talk to, but notice.

Hence my confliction of where to move to - where to buy a home instead of dumping all of this rent into my landlord's bank account. Even though we're in a housing crisis, suddenly people all around me are buying homes. Dental Mista just bought her first 1600 square foot apartment in Lincoln Park (it's beauuuutiful...we found it for her on Craig's List!), and my very first Dog Friend from the Park, who is a teacher, just bought her second house. Yes, the first is an apartment here in the city, and now a home somewhere out of the city and they will rent the apartment out.

When Dental Mista was buying her home, she'd been looking and looking, going through so many experiences. But what became very apparent to me was that she knew exactly what she wanted. I've always been a little serendipitous, so planning like this doesn't appeal to me, however, with this kind of housing decision, it's becoming clear that if I don't know what I want, I won't move. I'll sort through these conflictions, but it's going to take some observing to figure out what to do. I love the city. But I want a house. Confliction.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Favorite Messenger Bag: Rickshaw Bagworks found in Paradise Garage

Rickshaw Bagworks messenger bagsWhen I first got my Mac Powerbook G4 just before I officially started Katie James back in 2005ish, I treated it to a pink carry case from Casauri that I found in Kate's Paperie. It served me well for years, but the pink took dirt in between the nylon that I couldn't scrub out, and a mysterious blanch spot appeared on my monitor's pixels that I blame on things pressing down on the laptop monitor while I'm carrying the bag or putting it into bigger bag with other things.

Now that Katie James has gone digital with Katie James Pixelated, I'm on the computer all of the time, and traveling more to meetings or to 'vacations' where I work during the day, and stop for dinner with whatever family I am with. This means lots of trips to Panera with lots of cords for phone and computer, my Griffin elevator (a raised surface for my laptop), notebook, folder of current scraps of paper notes, etc. So I usually carry two bags at minimum to contain this maddness.

Then I had to buy a new Mac, and I wanted to start things off right. I wanted a mini-office on my shoulder. And I wanted to ride my bike with it if I wanted to. Enter Columbus bike stores. I am addicted to them. I seem to buy all of my clothes from them. Paradise Garage is my current favorite, and when I asked about messenger bags, they passionately presented me with the Rickshaw Bagworks line, out of San Fransisco.

The messenger bag had all that I was looking for:
  • a framed structure so that I could place things in the middle of the bag that would not smush up against the laptop
  • a separate pocket for the laptop
  • front pockets for other stuff like cords, external harddrives, lip gloss...
  • big front pocket that folds over, and has magnet strips if you don't feel like buckling it (this might be revelutionery for actual bike messengers b/c it replace the velcro that can be noisy when they enter offices, but the Rickshaw Bagworks bag also offers the velcro opportunity under the magnets)
  • cool color combos.
I would change two things about this bag:
  • better placement of pockets for cell phones and little things. This bag may have been designed with men in mind, and men may not be as into pockets as women are. I want an easy place for my cell phone and metro card on the outside of the bag.
  • the magnetic strips are cool for lazy days, but if you don't buckle it, the straps hang, and that's not very neat and tidy.
But these thoughts on improvement are not a deal breaker. I am SO happy with this bag. I don't have to carry two bags anymore, and packing it now is like clockwork. I ended up buying it from Paradise Garage to reward the brick and mortar store for their great find (keep retail stores alive!), but you can also find more styles on Rickshaw's website. Actually, I don't see mine on their website (brown with pink trim), so shop around!

Pink Rickshaw messenger bag

Friday, August 07, 2009

How to Cut Your Own Bangs - Like I Did

ATTN: What you are about to read is the result of hair that is growing longer and longer, and the owner of said hair not knowing what to do with it. Also, it is the result of pie bangs coming back with a rage, and said hair owner not being able to resist. You may do this at home, but only if you are within 5 miles of a hair dresser you trust. You must be OK with pixie bangs, if you cut too much and must only have pixie bangs left.

scissors that cut the bagsFirst of all, decide what kind of bang you want. Personally, I love the heavy bang, commonly referred to in the 5th grade as the pie shaped bang. Usually when I try this, I get a wispy Helen Hunt bang, or at best, a bad feathery Claudia Schiffer bang. However, bangs I covet most are Melissahead Yabberings, Heidi Klum bangs at times, and for a minute Zooey Deschanel's bangs in 500 Days of Summer. Oops, if you look at those, 2 out of 3 have dark brown hair, which may help the bang look more solid instead of whispy.

Here is how to cut your bangs at home:
1. Wet your bangs. It's best done right out of the shower.

2. Use sharp, pointy scissors. I was in an emergency, and used scissors from Sephora that are curved at the top. This is not recommended, but will suffice in an emergency.

3. If you have long bangs (aka, no bangs), comb down the amount of bangs you want. If you want the pie shaped bang as mentioned above, you literally should pull down your bang in the shape of a triangle, with a point of center up at the top. Don't make the bang all straight accross at the root. Make it in a triangle shape.

4. This is the fun and scary part. You need to cut off several inches. Hold your wet hair straightly between your fingers, and start cutting accross (the result of this is shown in the picture above. You can cut straight accross, or at a sharp diagonal. I did a sharp diagonal just for fun, leaving one side almost long enough to go behind my ear. Leave room for error, so cut it slightly longer than you actually want them.

5. Now trim the line you just cut. Hold your scissors at a vertical angle, and cut up into the bang. Don't cut horizontally anymore. Cut up. This will give some dimension to your bang, and help it not look like such a jagged edge.

6. To style, put a bit of mouse, or my favorite, the mens Texture Creme from Crew. Love that stuff. That will add some body and lift your bang.

Bangs cut by myself

Things to think about in the morning:
1. If you are a two-day hair kind of girl, note that your new bangs may very well stick straight up in the morning. They will probably calm down, but won't have that 'just stepped out from under the blow dryer' effect.

2. You may want to make them shorter, because they will suddenly be in your eyes. Pause before doing this because you are about to really mess them up, and then trim. When you trim, continue with the vertical angle on the scissor. This will take a longer time to actually trim your new bangs, but is less room for glaring error. You'll still have error because you did it yourself, but it won't be so, so bad.

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Best Student Designed Bags


Best Student Designed Bags, originally uploaded by KT Flicker.

Students produce the most wonderful designs. So fresh, so energetic,
so free. This designer was a finalist. We're making our eat through
the other categories! People are here from all over the world. There
is a shoe designer whose shoes is in a stamp in Finland.